What Should I Do?
Question by Kendy: What should i do?
Okay i have a freind she had baby feb 13 08 since since she was 6 monthes pregnancy her baby’s daddy cheated on her.We didnt know she went in to labor the whole he was texting and going outside to smoke talking to his new girlfriend.4 days later he went back to san jose and told her she was so upset and being a friend i was there anyways 2 days ago he came down and there gonna see how things go well i guess there going goodbut he is still with his other girlfriend.I told her how i feel he wasnt there for 2 monthes no phone call or anything and no he has her where he wants her.I told her how i feel and everything he is no good.And all she says is i know i know what should i do he doesnt even like me like because i dont even know he a low life piece of crap does meth and everything.Not the mom though id kill her.Idk should back off or what?Please help
Best answer:
Answer by Natalie N
so is ur friend, he should leave him or if he wants to come back ot her then they should fix thing,
is to shame now
dont forget that they have a babie
& the babie will need a father next to it!!!
she needs to decide what she is going to do!!
she cant be alone, she needs power to stand up to her feet & she needs love, both of them!
Answer by Brianna M
Heres the deal-my best advice would be-that she prly shouldnt invest anything emotional into him.. the relationship should strictly be for the baby-as in he should be able to see his child.. but there prly shouldnt be ne type of relationship between your friend nd this guy! and first nd for most-he should NOT be aloud to be with the baby by himself-if he is doing drugs.. there is no tellin if he is going to be high around the baby-that type of drug takes over someones life and someone prly the mother-or even the law needs to be involved so that he would have to go to rehab in order to have contact with his child-the child does need a father in his life-but as a father it needs to be a good role model also-and if he is not going to be either of those the mother needs to find someone that will love her and her child and be a positive influence in their life-Have her read this…by you tellin her all this she may feel a bit overwhelmed..but advice from a complete stranger with an outside perspective might help her to realize the problems! Goodluck sweetheart-I wish your friend luck as well!
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